STL3 Monthly Open Munch

COME JOIN US! STL3 hosts an open gathering on the second Saturday of every month from 7PM to 10PM.  It is regularly attended by 50 or more of the friendliest kinky people you will ever meet. This is a great way to meet and make friends with folks already involved in the lifestyle in a safe, public venue. No invitations required. Just show up. The venue changes month-to-month. To find out the location of the next monthly open munch, send an email to

St Charles Munch

The St Charles Munch, partners with STL3, is another open social gathering scheduled on the third Tuesday of every month from 7PM to 10PM at a local bar & grill located near the St. Charles Community College. This popular social gathering is well attended by almost 100 local ‘kinksters’, and they welcome everyone who is new to the BDSM lifestyle. It’s a great opportunity to meet and make new friends, ask questions and find out more about BDSM and the STL3 Group, in a public, safe, no-pressure environment.  For more information, and the address, check out the St Charles Munch Web Site.


The home of Fetish Lifestyle Open Group (a.k.a. F.L.O.G.). For the past fourteen years, FLOG has been dedicated to providing an open, friendly and safe environment to anyone interested in BDSM. Their open social gatherings  are held on the forth Saturday of each month and usually draws a crowd of about 200 like-minded people. Although this is an “open gathering”, an invitation must first be requested through their website at WWW.MOFLOG.ORG

Shameless Grounds Coffee Shop

Shameless Grounds has become a very popular gathering spot for the St. Louis lifestyle community. They host a wide variety of weekly and monthly Lifestyle groups and social gatherings, including the Switches’ Symposium, Stl-Littles, and many more. Be sure to check out the latest happenings on their web site. They also have great food and extraordinary coffee.

Metro-Submissive Forum

This discussion group has been meeting on the second Thursday of every month for over ten years, The group provides an opportunity for submissives, both new and experienced, to discuss topics of interest and importance. Meetings are conducted in a safe, confidential, non-judgmental atmosphere with the understanding that an exchange of viewpoints leads to growth and enlightenment. If you are new to the lifestyle and identify as submissive, this monthly get-together is a must. For an invitation, email the group facilitator, Silverpet.

Links to Other Lifestyle Related Groups

The BDSM Events Page

Listing of BDSM events around the country

AHS (Alternative Hedonistic Source) BDSM group located in Kansas City
BLACK ROSE Washington, D.C. based BDSM group
HPEP Houston, Texas based chapter of PEP (People Exchanging Power)
Janus San Francisco, California based BDSM group
Leather Archives & Museum Chicago, Illinois based Museum dedicated to the lifestyle
Louisville Munch Bunch Louisville, Kentucky based BDSM Munch group
National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Nationwide advocacy and support group for those in the lifestyle
National Leather Association International National Organization for the support of those in the leather, BDSM, and Fetish community
St. Louis Flog St. Louis community monthly get together
TES ( The Eulenspiegel Society ) New York, New York based BDSM support and education group

All links above were validated on 01/10/2010. Please report any broken links to the webmaster.

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