Q: I am an STL3 member. May I bring a guest to one of our events?
A: Guests, who are 21 years of age or older, are permitted to attend munches and excursions. Bringing a guest to the play space must first be cleared with the Executive Board. You, as a member, are responsible for explaining STL3’s code of conduct and behavior expectations to your guest. Additionally, you are responsible for ensuring your guest complies with such.

Q: What is the difference between a “guest” and a “sponsee”?
A: A guest is defined as an individual who is Not interested in pursuing membership to STL3, for example, a visiting out-of-town friend. A sponsee, a.k.a. probationary member, is one who has expressed interest in joining STL3, submitted a membership application and under the guidance of a sponsor, will attend the requisite STL3 events and fulfill other membership requirements before being successfully voted on and offered membership.

Q: What expectations does STL3, as a group, have of its members?
A: As a member of STL3, it is expected that…

  • You show a commitment to the BDSM lifestyle, not just idle curiosity.
  • You are a willing participant in the group. Attendance of every event is not required and we understand often not possible.
  • You abide by the policies and code of conduct established by the elected MC and Executive Board of of STL3.
  • You pay your annual membership dues promptly. New members are expected to pay their membership dues promptly, but not more than 30 days of being voted in and accepting membership into STL3.

Q: How do I become a Member of STL3?
A: Detailed answer HERE

Q: How much are STL3 annual dues?
A: Annual dues is payable in full by the end of October each year. New members are charged a pro-rated amount based upon the month their membership was approved.

Q: Can I be removed from STL3 membership?
A: If a member of STL3 fails to abide by the rules and regulations of the group, they may be removed by a majority vote of the MC.