STL3 Sponsored Gatherings & Events.

STL3 Monthly Open Munch

COME JOIN US! STL3 hosts an open social gathering on the second Saturday of every month from 7PM to 10PM.  It is regularly attended by fifty or more of the friendliest kinky people you will ever meet. This is a great way to meet and make friends with folks who are already involved in the lifestyle in a safe, public venue. No invitations required. Just show up. The venue changes month-to-month. To find out the location of the next monthly open social gathering, send an email to

A ‘munch’ (derived from “burger munch”) is nothing more than a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop; the organizer usually reserving a large table, a private room, or the entire venue. Guests are free to arrive and leave any time within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are new or curious about BDSM to meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.

Beat Me in St. Louis
An annual 3-day adult educational seminal and play party held in the Spring

  • BMSL XV – 15th Annual – March 30 to April 1, 2012
  • BMSL XVI – 16th Annual – March 15 to March 17, 2013
  • BMSL XVII – 17th Annual – March 28 to March 30, 2014
  • BMSL XVIII – 18th Annual – April 17 to April 19, 2015
  • BMSL XIX – 19th Annual – April 8 to April 10, 2016

Beat Me in St. Louis Event Web Site:

Spanksgiving – St. Louis
An annual 3-day adult educational seminal and play party held in the Fall

  • Spanksgiving 2012 – November 16th – 18th 2012
  • Spanksgiving 2013 – November 22nd – 24th 2013
  • Spanksgiving 2014 – November 21st – 23rd 2014
  • Spanksgiving 2015 – November 20th – 22nd 2015
  • Spanksgiving 2016 – November 18th – 20th 2016

Spanksgiving Event Web Site:


Interested in vending at an STL3 event?
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