STL3 Sponsored Gatherings & Events.

STL3 Monthly Open Munch

COME JOIN US! STL3 hosts an open social gathering on the second Saturday of every month from 7PM to 10PM.  It is regularly attended by fifty or more of the friendliest kinky people you will ever meet. This is a great way to meet and make friends with folks who are already involved in the lifestyle in a safe, public venue. No invitations required. Just show up. The venue changes month-to-month. To find out the location of the next monthly open social gathering, send an email to

A ‘munch’ (derived from “burger munch”) is nothing more than a casual social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM. Munches often take place at a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop; the organizer usually reserving a large table, a private room, or the entire venue. Guests are free to arrive and leave any time within the specified hours. The primary purpose is socializing, although some munches also have announcements or demonstrations from local organizations or individuals. Munches are meant to help those who are new or curious about BDSM to meet others, become more comfortable, and better informed. Munches can also be a place to get advice, or pass on anecdotes about BDSM experiences.

In addition to STL3, there are many of other munches, educational opportunities, play parties, classes, seminars, group meetings, live discussions, social gatherings, and other activities available to everyone in the local St Louis lifestyle community. See our LINKS page and the Calendar below.


Beat Me in St. Louis
An annual 3-day adult educational seminal and play party held in the Spring

  • BMSL XX – 20th Annual – March 24th to March 26, 2017
  • BMSL XXI – 21st Annual – March 23rd to March 25th, 2018
  • BMSL XXII – 22nd Annual – April 5th to April 7th, 2019
  • BMSL XXIII – 23rd Annual – March 27th to March 29th, 2020

Beat Me in St. Louis Event Web Site:

Spanksgiving – St. Louis
An annual 3-day adult educational seminal and play party held in the Fall

  • Spanksgiving 2016 – November 18th – 20th, 2016
  • Spanksgiving 2017 – November 17th – 19th, 2017
  • Spanksgiving 2018 – November 16th – 18th, 2018
  • Spanksgiving 2019 – November 22nd – 24th, 2019
  • Spanksgiving 2020 – November 20th – 22nd, 2020

Spanksgiving Event Web Site:


Interested in vending at an STL3 event?
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