Welcome to STL3, Inc. We hope you find our web site informative and easy to navigate. Members and visitors may explore what STL3 is about, learn about our events, open munches, and education seminars. Also provided is information about BDSM lifestyle related topics, as well as associated groups in the area.


  • Licensed, Not For Profit, educational, support and social group
  • Successful track record of over 20 years
  • Nominal annual voting membership fee
  • Monthly play parties and social gatherings
  • Classes and presenters offered throughout the year
  • Hundreds of members from across the St Louis region
  • Private, modern, 5,000 square foot venue with social, party, and enclosed outdoor patio areas
  • Fully equipped dungeon facility, commercial kitchen, high tech sound and security systems
  • Coalition Partner with the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom
  • An organization run by the members, for the members
  • Membership Committee, elected annually by all the voting members
  • Participation at monthly Membership Committee meetings
  • Fundraisers to support various local charities every year
  • Sponsors and produces the two largest BDSM conventions in the mid-west
  • Provides mentoring and educational opportunities
  • Sponsors D.M. training and safe, sane and consensual BDSM education
  • Provides scholarship programs for individuals with financial need
  • Promotes volunteerism and goodwill
  • Open to single individuals, couples and poly people from across the socioeconomic spectrum
  • Does not discriminate based upon age, race, religion, sexual orientation, or chosen lifestyle
  • A discreet organization that respects the privacy of all its members
  • Welcomes all adults regardless of experience level, depth of knowledge or time involved in the lifestyle

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