Welcome to STL3, Inc. Members, perspective members and visitors may explore what STL3 is about, learn about our events, open munches, and education seminars. Also provided is information about BDSM lifestyle related topics, as well as associated groups in the area.


  • Licensed, Not For Profit, 501(c), educational, support and social group
  • Successful 20 year track record
  • Nominal annual voting membership fee
  • Monthly play parties and social gatherings
  • Classes, seminars and presenters offered throughout the year
  • Hundreds of members from across the St Louis, Missouri region
  • Private, modern, 5,000 sq ft venue
  • ADA Compliant
  • Spacious social gathering area
  • Enclosed outdoor patio area
  • Fully equipped play space
  • High-tech sound system
  • Modern kitchen (coming soon)
  • National Coalition of Sexual Freedom – Coalition Partner
  • An organization run by the members, for the members
  • Membership Committee, annually elected to office by voting membership
  • Participation at monthly Membership Committee meetings
  • Annual fundraisers support various local charities
  • Hosts a well attended open munch every month
  • Sponsors and produces the two largest BDSM conventions in the mid-west
  • Provides mentoring and educational opportunities
  • Sponsors D.M. training and safe, sane and consensual BDSM education
  • Provides scholarship programs for individuals with financial need
  • Promotes volunteerism and community goodwill
  • Open to singles, couples and poly people from across the socioeconomic spectrum
  • A discreet organization that respects the privacy of all its members
  • Does not discriminate based upon age, race, religion, sexual orientation, or chosen lifestyle
  • Welcomes all adults regardless of experience level, depth of knowledge or time involved in the lifestyle

Did you hear about us on the radio, from a friend, or just curious because you read “50 Shades of Gray”?   If so, click HERE